How to Ask a Girl Out

Ask A Girl Out

You’ve met a girl in school through a mutual friend or a lady in your office that you really fancy. You experience a different feeling within you when you see her and the emotion is further heightened when she smiles at you and says hi. Suddenly, you’re in cloud nine.

This feeling is very real. But you may be wondering that while men are supposed to be strong and confident about themselves most of the time, when it comes to love it’s not just the same. Young and even adult men feel weak in the knees when they’re near the girl they like a lot. So if this happens, how then can they muster the courage to ask a girl out?

There are techniques, of course, and when done right, could result in you and your dream girl dating exclusively for a long time. And who knows, you two could even end up in a romantic relationship.

Befriend her. Everything starts in friendship. Most couples will agree to this. When you’re interested in a girl, the best way to get know more about her is to befriend her. If you have a mutual friend, maybe you can ask that person to introduce you to her. This way, you won’t appear as a stranger. When you finally meet her, try to be nice and ask a few things about her. At least by this time, she can already consider you as a friend and the next time you meet, maybe you can ask for her phone number at home or her mobile phone number.

Call her. If you like the girl, calling her often is the right way to show her your interest. Acceptance of your calls is a good sign that she likes you as well. During your phone conversation, you can talk about interests you share or maybe talk about how your day went which could also encourage her to share the same.

Ask her out directly. When you feel you want to go out with this girl just the two of you, by all means do ask her in person if you get the chance or by phone. There may be other means of communication such as through text messages, social network messaging or instant messaging on the internet but they’re considered less personal. You can initiate the topic when you talk but make sure you’re not feeling nervous as it could show on your face, body language and voice.

Timing is vital. Make sure that the two of you are alone when you ask her out for a date. Never ask her when other people are around as she will feel pressured. The moment will be awkward for both of you.

Be ready for rejection. It may be you feel confident that she’d accept your invitation for a date. However, not every man who asks a girl out whether it’s for the first time or second time succeeds. So be prepared for a “no.” At least when you’re ready to face rejection, it won’t hurt that much unlike when you’re not. Maybe she’s too busy or she’s not ready yet so just take everything in stride.

Unaware to women, men actually don’t find it easy to ask a girl out except maybe for the overly confident guys. But it’s just a matter of strategy.

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